If you're a walking disaster, it's a problem, but generally speaking, that stuff is your business, not ours. A classic sign of this is their inability to show emotions other than positive ones. And, if you don't like that they've waited over two weeks or longer to reach out, it's time to re-evaluate whether you want to be their last priority. Signs You May be Dating a Narcissist. When they do offer you a commitment, even if it's just a dinner, be appreciative of it. Give them space. In this case, exercise some compassion; a more softly, softly approach might help them work out their issues and save your relationship.
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For example; I had a friend who AFTER he broke up with a Commitment Phobe she randomly bumped into his mum at an event, they got drunk went out clubbing together and his mum crashed on her couch.
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